ARE YOU IN LOVE OR IN NEED ??

 Love is a beautiful and a divine feeling. It is the base of origin of MANKIND.  It creates wonders , it creates wars too. People die for LOVE, people kill for LOVE. People are born out of LOVE, People live with LOVE. 

Though falling in LOVE is the most BEAUTIFUL and POWERFUL thing in the WORLD, My point here is that, JUST analyse your patterns towards falling in the name of LOVE. IT MAY NOT ALWAYS BE LOVE, IT MAY BE A DEEP UNFILLED VOID IN YOUR LIFE, WHICH IS MAKING YOU FALL IN LOVE, THINKING IT IS LOVE.

If you observe you'll always fall for the person who gives you comfort and all the things that are missing in your life.You will always get attracted towards someone who is giving you something (it can be comfort, confidence, care or compliments or watever). Receiving something that you dont have makes you feel TOP OF THE WORLD, and the person who is giving that feels as GOD to you :-) You feel like giving your everything to that person and revolve around that person as your body and hormones will be in a good place whenever you are getting what you lacked all these years.

But then, why are all breaking up and staying away from the person they've loved with all their HEART ?? Why suddenly they tend to attack each other silently or loudly ? The problem is they were not in TRUE LOVE. Yes, it might be shocking to many, but, yes, we often are looking for the NEED to fill a gap in our life with someone who can give us that. We tend to constantly depend on that person for that NEED. Early years or days will be nice, as they will be giving all that you NEEDED unknowingly. Later suddenly once they have a compatible association with you, they tend to go on with life looking to reach higher limits and grow in life. Suddenly you feel that they dont LIKE YOU or LOVE YOU.. Why ????? Its the same person, whom youve loved and loved and lived and admired? Its because YOU WERE NEVER IN LOVE WITH THAT PERSON , YOU WERE JUST IN NEED. So, once the NEED IS AGAIN LEFT UNPLUGGED YOU START FEELING HELPLESS AND RESTLESS. 

Let's continue this blog tomorrow again with how to really LOVE and learn fill our NEEDS WITH YOURSELF RATHER THAN DEPENDING ON OTHERS FOR YOUR NEEDS..

I guess i'm giving you guys a heart work and a tough analysis on your LOVE LIFE on a MONDAY !!